My boyfriend and I tried to spice up our sex life with a threesome but it just made him angry – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN we tried to spice up our sex life with a couple of threesomes, my boyfriend ended up angrily leaving the room both times.

Since then we have had sex just twice – and when we did, it lasted no longer than 15 minutes.

I am a guy of 30 and my boyfriend is 33. We’ve been together for four years.

Our sex life was great at first but now it’s dead.

I am a very open, sexual person so for me this is like torture.

I made my feelings clear on several occasions but got a whitewash response, with him reassuring me he loves me and is still sexually attracted to me.

We are at the point now where we hide from each other to pleasure ourselves.

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DEIDRE SAYS: A sexual problem between two people is rarely solved by adding someone else into the mix.

Rather than making your own feelings clear, ask about his.

What went wrong for him? Is he stressed or depressed?

Or does he find it hard to sustain intimacy in a lasting relationship?

Be warm, loving and tactile with him, following the self-help sex therapy in my e-leaflet on Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive.

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