I’d do anything sexually for my husband but he does nothing for me

DEAR DEIDRE: I’D do anything sexually for my husband but he does nothing for me.

He complains about condoms and he grumbles if I ask him to go on top.

I instigated sex the other night, we started foreplay and then I gave him oral sex.

He climaxed but then just turned over and went to sleep.

I feel unloved and frustrated. He’s 37 and I’m 33 and we have a little boy of ten months.

Our sex life was definitely better before we had our son. I had a traumatic birth but think if I can get over it, surely, he can too.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your husband may be worried about the prospect of you getting pregnant again and some men struggle to have sex with their partners after they have seen them endure a lot of pain in childbirth.

Find a quiet moment to tell him you’re worried about him and ask that he gets the once-over from his GP to see everything is OK.

If he’s physically well then my support pack called Sex Problems After A Baby may help you to get things back on track.

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